Archive for the ‘Spirit’ Category

Helping Others Could Help You Live Longer

Studies show that people who volunteer on a regular basis are the healthiest and live the longest.

In fact, according to Chandra Torgerson, senior vice president and chief nursing officer for United Healthcare, “People who volunteer feel better all over.” A survey conducted by the company showed 92% of respondents felt more optimistic and had an enriched sense of purpose in life after volunteering.

Here’s another benefit – volunteers are less likely to be obese. A lower proportion of volunteers (31 percent) were identified as obese when compared to non-volunteers (36 percent).

So, what motivates individuals to volunteer and support charities?

Leora Kaufman of New York City works in the nonprofit world. The 31-year-old is the regional director of American Friends of Likud. And she founded a professional group called ViZion to build a community of the next leaders. “My generation of nonprofit professionals supports each other,” she explained at a recent charity event.

Kalman Samuels, founder of an organization called Shalva, says, “Charity is an amazing circular gift. There is nothing you can do for anyone else that doesn’t do for yourself.” Shalva means “peace of mind,” and the organization provides support for families of mentally and physically challenged children.

That may be what motivated Linda Franklin, founder of the popular blog The Real Cougar Woman, to start her Shining Service Worldwide initiative. Franklin wanted to let women in the military know they’re appreciated and supported, so she created the Shining Service Bracelet campaign. Women can buy a bracelet for themselves along with one for a woman in uniform. Franklin’s organization then sends the second bracelets to Afghanistan or Iraq along with the buyer’s name and email.

“Receiving the bracelet sends a very powerful message. It says, I appreciate you, I support you and I am here for you,” says Franklin. She adds, “When one percent of the population is putting their lives in danger to protect 99% of the population, it’s time to step up to the plate and help them.”

One key to successful volunteerism is to find something you’re passionate about, like Franklin and her bracelets or Samuels and his children. Then bring that passion to others.

If you’re not sure where to start, check out VolunteerMatch. Just type in your zip code to find organizations looking for volunteers.

Have a Youthful Day,

Jackie Silver

The Health-Enhancing “Queen of Herbs”

Whether you call it Holy Basil or the Queen of Herbs, as they do in India, tulsi leaves used in tea are renowned in Ayurvedic medicine as an “elixir of life.” Ayurvedic medicine is native to India and practiced in some other countries as a form of alternative medicine. Tulsi is mentioned in the central teachings of Ayurvedic medicine, written at least 2,000 years ago, but tulsi tea has been used in India and tropical regions of Asia for more than 5,000 years.

According to Organic India, this antioxidant-rich herb relieves stress, treats coughs and colds, boosts your metabolism and wards off allergies. It also reduces the toxicity of various poisons, including insect and reptile bites, and purifies the air.1

Tulsi’s long-celebrated use has a lot to do with being considered an “adaptogen.” Adaptogens are herbs that increase your body’s ability to adapt to stress and changing situations. For an herb to be considered an adaptogen, it must be nontoxic and able to generate a nonspecific response.

This means it doesn’t target a specific region of the body, but rather benefits the body as a whole. Adaptogens also help create a state of balance or normalization in the body.

When you drink it, tulsi tea is said to have a calming effect. It also reportedly strengthens the body’s immune system and promotes mental clarity.

When prepared as a tea, tulsi has a mild flavor with a sweet, spicy twist and can be imbibed hot or cold. It can also be mixed with other herbs, teas, and spices.

For hot tulsi tea (single serving):

• Pour eight ounces of hot water over a tulsi teabag.

• Steep for three minutes or more.

• Drink it as is or add organic milk or sugar, or both, as desired.

For iced tea (2-4 servings):

• Pour two cups of hot water over eight teabags.

• Steep for 20 minutes.

• Remove tea bags.

• Add two more cups of cold water.

• Refrigerate and serve over ice.

Tulsi is caffeine-free and safe for all ages. It’s sold at many health-food stores as well as online.

Have a Youthful Day,

Jackie Silver


1 “What is Tulsi?”  http://www.organicindia.com/tulsi-facts.php

Give Yourself the Gift of Energy this Holiday Season

Stay Energized During the Holiday Season

Happy holidays! The busiest time of the year has arrived.

Between holiday shopping, cooking and entertaining, you’ll need to keep your energy levels up to get through the season and enjoy it along the way.

The following tips can help you rejoice this holiday season without running out of steam:

1. Get a good night’s sleep – Few of us get all the sleep we need in today’s busy world, according to Dr. David Posen, author of The Little Book of Stress Relief.

To restore and regenerate your mind and body, you actually need between eight and nine hours of sleep every night. Children need 10 to 12 hours and teens need nine to 10 hours.

Here’s another little-known sleeping fact: Don’t use your cell phone at all in the hour before you go to sleep. It’s been found that radiation from handsets can cause insomnia, headaches and confusion, according to research funded by the Mobile Manufacturers Forum.

2. Make time to exercise – A simple walk is better than a nap if you need an energy boost. In fact, engaging in regular exercise actually increases your energy levels over the long run.

“We live in a society where people are always looking for the next sports drink, energy bar, or cup of coffee that will give them the extra edge to get through the day,” says researcher Tim Puetz, PhD, of the University of Georgia exercise psychology laboratory.

Dr. Puetz points out that lacing up your tennis shoes and getting some daily physical activity does a good job of giving you the energy boost you want.

3. Enjoy a cup of coffee – Go ahead! You’ll get more than an energy boost. Coffee actually provides a brain boost, as well.

According to a study by Dr. Mia Kivipelto, associate professor of neurology at the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm, middle-aged men and women who drank three to five cups of coffee a day were 65 percent less likely to develop dementia than those who drank two cups or less.

This means, unless your doctor’s restricted your coffee intake, you can feel good about enjoying your morning cup o’ Joe.

If you have a hectic schedule this holiday season, try these tips for celebrating at your energetic best.

Have a Youthful Day,

Jackie Silver

Looking for Love

Dear Beauty Conscious Reader,

Whether you’re already in a loving relationship or looking for love, being in the company of someone special can be very enjoyable.

Dr. Diana Kirschner says in her book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love, “Love is life’s golden ticket. It brings in the brightest of colors and the rich high and low notes. There is no mistaking it; you know when you have love. And you definitely know when you don’t.”

If you’re still trying to find your soul mate, research reveals that simply telling someone, “I really like you,” can make him or her find you more attractive.

According to Aberdeen University psychologist Dr. Ben Jones, making eye contact and smiling has a similar effect.1

Here are some Aging Backwards stats about couples:

1. According to research, people who are happily married live healthier lives than their single counterparts.2Some experts believe that one reason is stress reduction.

Cardiovascular, hormonal, and immune pathways are important to your well-being. Stress can have a negative effect on these systems. Being part of a “team” can make you feel better equipped to handle stress. And pooling your incomes allows you to share housing costs, groceries, and other household expenses. All factors in reducing stress.

2. Being married is linked to improvements in mental health for both men and women, as well as less depression.3Depression is one of the most common psychiatric disorders and can be highly debilitating.4

3. Married women tend to live longer than single, divorced, or widowed women.5

So, if you’re married, today would be a great day to tell your loved one how grateful you are to have them in your life.

If you’re single and looking, be sure to flash a lovely smile… it could be a great icebreaker!

Have a Youthful Day,


Jackie Silver

  1. Jones, Ben, psychologist, Aberdeen University – Psychological Science, Sept. 2008.
  2. Waite, Linda J., Ye Luo, and Alisa Lewin. 2009. “Marital Happiness and Marital Stability: Consequences for Psychological Well-Being.” Social Science Research. 38:201-212.
  3. R. G. Wood, B. Goesling & S. Avellar (2007) “The Effects of Marriage on Health: A Synthesis of Recent Research Evidence.”
  4. Kessler et al. 1994; Menaghan and Lieberman 1986; Turner and Lloyd 1999
  5. Kirschner, Diana, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love (Paperback – Feb 8, 2010)

Count Your Blessings

“The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our blessings.” Eric Hoffer

We’re constantly being bombarded with stories of grief, war and natural disasters, to name a few. It’s important to keep up with current events, but sometimes it can be depressing. I like to turn the negative into a positive by being grateful for all of my blessings. My life isn’t perfect, but I’m much better off than the poor people in Sudan or the victims of Hurricane Katrina or the Pacific tsunami. At the end of the day, I like to meditate and give thanks for all I have to be grateful for. I keep a pen and paper by my bed and I write down: “Today, I am grateful for _ ” (fill in the blank). Even on the worst day, I find something to be thankful for and focusing on that gratitude helps heal whatever’s hurting me.

Don’t Worry, Be Happy

Some people are natural worriers and I’m one of those. I used to worry about everything! I’d worry about what other people were thinking of me  what I wore, what I said, what I didn’t say. I could always put on a confident facade so most people around me never knew I was such a worrier. You become an expert at hiding things after a while. Then I was visiting a friend’s house one day and discovered a remarkable poster framed on her bathroom wall. If you didn’t look at it closely, it seemed like just a jumble of sentences all running together, hand-written in an artsy fashion, but buried in the middle was a gem. It read: “90% of everything I worry about never happens.” Wow, that is so true! I took that sentence and made it my own personal mantra. I still worry, even about totally insignificant things, but then I repeat my mantra: “90% of everything I worry about never happens,” and the worries dissolve. As for the other 10%? I’ll deal with that when it happens.

Accentuate the Positive

No matter how hard I try, I’m never going to be “perfect.” That doesn’t mean I’m going to give up trying, though! For me it means I’m going to figure out a way to “appear” perfect and that entails a little creativity. I like to hide my flaws. Flaws, what flaws? And highlight my best features. According to a poll I took among my friends and acquaintances, my two best features are my eyes and my legs. So I like to take special care in doing my eye makeup. If I have a little blemish somewhere on my face, no one’s going to get past the eyes to even notice it. I also like to wear skirts or form-fitting jeans that show off my legs. When I have a little extra time, I like to go to the cosmetic counters at the big department stores and have them do my makeup. I almost always come away with a tip for accentuating my best feature, those eyes, and all of my other features too!